Living without judgment !

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SG on a sunny day, 

 Today as going out, I heard a lot about what others talked about others else. Some of them asked me if I had the same ideas as them. Some talked about some singers with extravagant clothes styles. Some talked about others youtubers whom I admire (some not in my lists but I don't care much). I just smiled and converted to other directions. Frankly, I have been trying to live my own life without judging others for a long time. Or perhaps in some circumstances, I forgot that, but still, remain on the way of no judgment. I memorized once my co-worker asked me what would you think if you saw a woman in a bar club and she got drunk lonely there? "Is she a faulty girl?", he asked silently. After some seconds, smiling, I told him why we didn't think that she got some troubles in her life or maybe one terrible event just fell over her. Was it fair if we judged someone so quickly even in some situation we don't even talk to them - just one word? Of course, my colleague and I didn't argue about that. We had the same thought. 

I used to judge and hate someone a lot without knowing anything about him/her. Yes, I am not ashamed to tell that I even felt disgusting for someone I just saw at the first time, and haven't had any conversations with him/her. (just through the first look- I guess so). 

 A long time ago, I didn't care much about people's stories. Talking about others won't make us better, won't make us more beautiful (both inside and outside), won't make us peace (because we think about others and can't get away from comparing ourselves to them too much),...We are wasting our time for doing that, we are wasting our energy, our dream in the future for who we are going to achieve. We have 24 hours/day like everyone and time cant come back. 
Most people say that they are busy and got no time for relaxing, for enjoying their free time. So, use time we have as much as we can, to do the best thing we can, to learn and develop ourselves, to dream and chase for what we dream, to get some more things done before all of them is going to be too late to hold on... 

 Time is not too long for a living, for helping, for caring, for laughing,... Instead of talking about others, or judging of someone, why don't we focus on ourselves and make our condition better? It's you who get yourself a better life :)

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